The most miserable thing 😔 which happens in this entire world is obviously child abuse!!!why can’t people see a small child as a child???….!!Child abuse is a complex phenomenon with multiple causes.No single factor can be identified as to why some adults behave abusively or neglectfully toward children.the main cause of child abuse is actually the lack of social security!!…when I logged in into one of the social media it was literally filled with stuffs abt child abuse!!!…abt a nearly 7 years old girl from haryana who was abused !!
She is just a budding blossom….!!! She didn’t even start her life..!!but this disaster nearly ended her life!!!why these kind of terrible things happens in society!!????who can and shud answer for her tears? …there are many questions arising in my mind..!! But don’t know the answer for anyof those!!
Childhood should be carefree, playing in the sun; not living a nightmare in the darkness of the soul.
Try not be a part of the crime!!
And Let us be the ones who say we do not accept that a child dies every three seconds and worry abt child abuse. Let’s remove the phrase”child abuse ” from dictionary named “the society” let us be loud, let us be bold.
I really don’t know how to complete this blog….cuz I have only infinite question regarding this topic! And I don’t what are the answers and who will be able to answer?!!
Do u guys think our country is really developing and everyone got true freedom in our country? .the real truth is we don’t even have a dignity to say that we are even a developing country and to say that we have got freedom..we shud feel really ashamed to utter that statement! U guys might wonder why shud I mention that we don’t have the dignity to say we are developing and etc😯🤔
In this blog I am not really gonna talk abt some economic status of our country or abt politics or something like that..!🤐😌
let me arise a small question to u guys!!Do u guys think each and every girl in this country are provided with proper security,do every girl get equal respect compared with a male child,proper education and etc.i guess u guys knows the answer……the answer is obviously ” no “..still in some Corner of our country there is a practice of sati, child marriage, widowhood and other idiotic superstitions….ppl are forced into accepting a superstition because of their ignorance and non awareness(just bcuz of mind set of ppl who are still conservatives)…..!!
There is no proper security for a girl child even!!!….the most miserable thing among these problems is child abuse!……there are still beasts alive who literally ends the life of a small kid who didn’t even started to live their life yet….!!!
We proudly celebrate independence day!!!ha …In this Independent country(as u ppl say) a girl can’t walk alone in night without fear ….!!!…then how can we say that we got freedom and stuffs…..
The true freedom is when a girl will be able to walk alone on the street alone without any fear about the beasts who are awaiting to ruin her life!!!there is no proper security anywhere away from home….not even in police station..sry I forgot abt temples which we consider as a holy and divine place… is it a safe place?…I don’t think so when I consider the case of Asifa…
.but still we say that we are Independent with a pride🤨🤨
Why there is no proper security for a girl….the only answer is there is no proper punishment to the predators. this is the punishment /judgement for those predators in our country!! if thesexual assault inflicts an injury which causes death or causes thevictimto be in a persistent vegetative state, then the convictedrapistmust be sentenced to rigorous imprisonment of at least twenty years and up to the remainder of the natural life or with a deathpenalty.”
May be this only happens in Google…At present,money can even change the judgements!!😑😖😞
These are some reasons why we can’t find proper solution for violation against women!!
Violence against women is a social, economic, developmental, legal, educational, human rights, and health (physical and mental) issue.
It is a preventable cause of morbidity and mortality in women
The relationship between violence against women and mental illness has not been adequately explored.
Application of laws related to violence in the setting of mental illness is difficult
Despite the social and religious sanctions against it in all cultures, it has continued.
Cases of violence against women are steadily increasing in the country. According to the National Crime Record Bureau, India, there is one dowry death in the country every 78 h, one act of sexual harassment every 59 min, one rape every 34 min, one act of torture every 12 min and almost one in every three married women experienced domestic violence.
PPL TRY TO CHANGE UR MIND SET!!!LET ATLEAST THE UPCOMING GENERATION TO FEEL WHAT TRUE FREEDOM IS ALL ABOUT!!…..AT LEAST IN FUTURE,LET US HOPE THAT WE WILL BE ABLE TO PROUDLY SAY THAT WE ARE INDEPENDENT WITH A PRIDE AND DIGNITY!!!
THE SECURITY OF A WOMEN IS THE SECURITY OF THE SOCIETY!!
teenagers are most misunderstood people in the earth.they are treated like children but asked to behave like adults.
confused!!!!
teenagers are most misunderstood people in the earth.they are treated like children but asked to behave like adults.people think every single thing a teen do is unworthy,useless and wicked.they are often misunderstood for no reason.most often they are termed as arrogant and careless.
They might be leading a messy life but that is part of growing up. They are obviously not the ones living the messiest of lives even though their way of living might seem so. With a big online community of friends which their family has no idea of, everything about a teen might seem a bit confusing. But even that doesn’t mean they are living a dangerous life.
Here are some answers about the real teenagers are!
Many adults have a perception that the online life of teenagers turn them out antisocial
but the truth…if at all they are all the time behind the screen online it doesnt mean they are antisocial.teenagers grew up with social media and what they are actually doing is connecting with friends.they are constantly in touch with their friends.their social life is their online life.
Many term that their hormones are going crazy.
Of course, a lot of hormonal changes happen during adolescence but the changes in behaviour is mostly because of the development of the brain.
teenagers seek to much freedom and privacy
is it really a bad thing to ask for privacy and freedom? You have gone through the same years and what every teenager in any era would have craved for is freedom. And in fact, it is not something too much to ask.
ppl think that we teens dont know anything about online safety
if teens dont know much about online safety,do u think u know everything about online safety. Kids these days know a lot more about online security and safety. Everything around them revolves around the internet. They might probably know a lot more than you about privacy and security.
Adults constantly say that their generation was far better than ours
But, this age-old statement is totally wrong. First of all, we can never really compare two generations. The teens of the 80s had other interests while teens of today have something else. They are obviously different but no generation of teens are better than the other.
many state that the teenagers are of same kind every where
but practically its not true.each and everyone’s interests, character and attitude will mostly be different. It is crime to just state that all teens are the same.
The whole adult world will undoubtedly agree that the best time of their life was when they were teenagers. Let the teenagers of 21st century too live life to the fullest. Why take the fun out of their life? Let them learn from their mistakes. Let them grow and make it a better world.
Fact
• Adolescents are considered to be rebellious and offensive • The reason they are considered like that is because adults have forgotten what is it like to be a teenager • There are still several adults expect adolescents to act in a certain way • Public interpreted adolescents as bad or naughty. • Several people believe teenagers have to be controlled or kept an eye on. • Evidence proved that part of brain is less mature than the adult brain, and causes teenager to misunderstood. • When adults grow older, their brain will develop a defense mechanism. • It’s the time for these stereotyping and misunderstanding to end and make a change.
Parenting the teenagers
show ur love .
listen to the thoughts.
take their ideas into account.
set reasonable expectations.
set rules and consequences.
prioritize rules.
set a positive example.
dont scold them when they say u how they feel.
security is much important….but give them some freedom.
give room for decision making.
dont underestimate their thoughts.
let them be creative.
let them have some freedom and privacy…..when they ask for it.
these may not work all the time but lets make a change
parents mostly fear about this society that the reason why they deny to provide the freedom and privacy which their kids asks for.the contemporary society is really not much secure
Do not much fear about this society because we are one among the society and we together form a society
TO MAKE A CHANGE BE A CHANGE
if ur provided be sure u use it to the fullest in a right manner.
My opinion
As a teenager myself, I have also been through several conditions where I thought that adults are taking me too lightly simply because of my age. My opinions are sometimes underestimated or not considered into their decisions, and I feel that my trustworthiness is zero in their eyes. Well, I would be lying if I said that I have never for once been “too loud” or “rebellious”, but isn’t it normal for us to once a while act that way? It’s not like I did it unreasonably and out of the blue. I mean, adults were once young too right? Then why can’t they understand us and keep expecting so much? I hate being misunderstood! ……. It just seems that they forgot how it is to be a teenagers. Sometimes I even get scolded for telling how I feel. They think that I am rebelling and not doing what I was told to. Even though I’m just 16, but it does not mean that I am childish and don’t know how to interact with people. Adults have judged us, the teenagers unfairly and seems blinded about what we really do .
but i cant really assure this argument is totally perfect .cuz we can take it another way like……. Teenage is a age of fun but this is the most dangerous time on life. Parents treat their kids as a Child because they passed this time!
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