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teenagers are most misunderstood people in the earth.they are treated like children but asked to behave like adults.

teenagers are most misunderstood people in the earth.they are treated like children but asked to behave like adults.people think every single thing a teen do is unworthy,useless and wicked.they are often misunderstood for no reason.most often they are termed as arrogant and careless.

They might be leading a messy life but that is part of growing up. They are obviously not the ones living the messiest of lives even though their way of living might seem so. With a big online community of friends which their family has no idea of, everything about a teen might seem a bit confusing.  But even that doesn’t mean they are living a dangerous life.

Here are some answers about the real teenagers are!

Many adults have a perception that the online life of teenagers turn them out antisocial

but the truth…if at all they are all the time behind the screen online it doesnt mean they are antisocial.teenagers grew up with social media and what they are actually doing is connecting with friends.they are constantly in touch with their friends.their social life is their online life.

Many term that their hormones are going crazy.

Of course, a lot of hormonal changes happen during adolescence but the changes in behaviour is mostly because of the development of the brain.

teenagers seek to much freedom and privacy

is it really a bad thing to ask for privacy and freedom? You have gone through the same years and what every teenager in any era would have craved for is freedom. And in fact, it is not something too much to ask.

ppl think that we teens dont know anything about online safety

if teens dont know much about online safety,do u think u know everything about online safety. Kids these days know a lot more about online security and safety. Everything around them revolves around the internet. They might probably know a lot more than you about privacy and security.

Adults constantly say that their generation was far better than ours

But, this age-old statement is totally wrong. First of all, we can never really compare two generations. The teens of the 80s had other interests while teens of today have something else. They are obviously different but no generation of teens are better than the other.

many state that the teenagers are of same kind every where

but practically its not true.each and everyone’s interests, character and attitude will mostly be different. It is crime to just state that all teens are the same.

The whole adult world will undoubtedly agree that the best time of their life was when they were teenagers. Let the teenagers of 21^st century too live life to the fullest. Why take the fun out of their life? Let them learn from their mistakes. Let them grow and make it a better world.

Fact

• Adolescents are considered to be rebellious and offensive 
• The reason they are considered like that is because adults have forgotten what is it like to be a teenager
• There are still several adults expect adolescents to act in a certain way
• Public interpreted adolescents as bad or naughty.
• Several people believe teenagers have to be controlled or kept an eye on.
• Evidence proved that part of brain is less mature than the adult brain, and causes teenager to misunderstood.
• When adults grow older, their brain will develop a defense mechanism.
• It’s the time for these stereotyping and misunderstanding to end and make a change.

Parenting the teenagers

• show ur love .
• listen to the thoughts.
• take their ideas into account.
• set reasonable expectations.
• set rules and consequences.
• prioritize rules.
• set a positive example.
• dont scold them when they say u how they feel.
• security is much important….but give them some freedom.
• give room for decision making.
• dont underestimate their thoughts.
• let them be creative.
• let them have some freedom and privacy…..when they ask for it.

these may not work all the time but lets make a change

parents mostly fear about this society that the reason why they deny to provide the freedom and privacy which their kids asks for.the contemporary society is really not much secure

Do not much fear about this society because we are one among the society and we together form a society

TO MAKE A CHANGE BE A CHANGE

if ur provided be sure u use it to the fullest in a right manner.

My opinion

As a teenager myself, I have also been through several conditions where I thought that adults are taking me too lightly simply because of my age. My opinions are sometimes underestimated or not considered into their decisions, and I feel that my trustworthiness is zero in their eyes. Well, I would be lying if I said that I have never for once been “too loud” or “rebellious”, but isn’t it normal for us to once a while act that way? It’s not like I did it unreasonably and out of the blue. I mean, adults were once young too right? Then why can’t they understand us and keep expecting so much? I hate being misunderstood! …….  It just seems that they forgot how it is to be a teenagers. Sometimes I even get scolded for telling how I feel. They think that I am rebelling and not doing what I was told to. Even though I’m just 16, but it does not mean that I am childish and don’t know how to interact with people. Adults have judged us, the teenagers unfairly and seems blinded about what we really do .

but i cant really assure this argument is totally perfect .cuz we can take it another way like……. Teenage is a age of fun but this is the most dangerous time on life. Parents treat their kids as a Child because they passed this time!